Balancing work with family is a challenge for many, no matter the job. But for working parents in the humanitarian and development sectors, who are often far from home, bearing witness to devastation, disaster, and poverty, and expected to be on call to respond to the latest crisis, the difficulties can be extreme.
“Being a parent in the humanitarian sector is different and difficult,” said Riya Yuyada, the co-founder of Crown the Woman, which focuses on the rights of women and girls in South Sudan. As a lifestyle more than an occupation, she spoke of her daily 3 a.m. wake-up call to work for a few hours before her son wakes. “It’s about taking care of everyone else and putting yourself last.”
As a result, some development professionals are transitioning to sectors better suited to having a family, concealing pregnancies for fear contracts won’t be renewed, and limiting themselves to one child, according to those Devex spoke to, including some who asked to remain anonymous.